From:http://blog.beanwoo.com/english/30/2007/11/11/363
Love Is In the Air
The Single’s Day is just around the corner（1）. In China, Valentine’s Day is overrated(2)and has a reputation for being exclusively for couples. But what about the single gal（3） or guy? In that day single people often feel lonely and even worthless. There must be a way they can celebrate their day even without a partner. That’s why the Single’s Day came about. We should look at it as nothing more than an excuse to treat ourselves to one or a few indulgences.
I came up with(4) some suggestions on how “single” men and women could spend the day alone, but not necessarily lonely. Instead of passing The Single’s Day off as a completely invaluable waste of space on the calendar, try one, several or all of the following esteem-boosters to lift your single spirit this time around.
1. The recently single gal/guy. First and foremost(5), do not ever call your ex in case you get lonely. Exes(6) belong to the past. Move on.
Yes, you must still be hurting and are going through the healing(7) process. But remember this famous line from a song: “Ooh child, things are gonna be easier.” In time you are indeed going to be OK. Don’t sulk(8). The Single’s Day can be a day to spend with family.
You can even make it more creative by suggesting potluck(9) and maybe plan some board games(10) or videoke(11). During this time, family can offer you the most solid support you will need, so take advantage of it.
2. The still-single guy or gal. Some of you may be getting restless already because it’s been years and you’re still without a partner. Relax. Why don’t you call your other single pals(12) and plan a night out? Have a nice dinner and go to a singles bar afterward. You’ll never know who you might meet. There is always a big chance you will meet someone interesting and single too. The Single’s Day is also for people looking for love.
3. Otherwise, for the groom-to-be, you can plan a bachelor party or fraternity party.You plan every aspect including bachelor party ideas, games, party favors, drinks and food for your bachelor party or fraternity party (frat party). Since a lot goes into planning the bachelor party, it’s will be tricky, fun but also stressful. Make it a very memorable one, why not enjoy it?
4. Buy yourself your favorite flowers. Who says you have to wait around for Prince/Princess Charming to add some spice and color to your dorm or apartment with your preferred plant life? Both guys and girls enjoy the occasional bouquet of Birds of Paradise or a lucky bamboo tree to boost Feng Shui.
5. The single mom/dad (formerly married or not). Take your kid/s out on a date. Why not? You can even plan an all-day activity. Go to the mall, take him to his favorite pizza place, watch a movie or treat him to play-all-you-can (with a reasonable budget) games at a carnival. It could be anything. Time spent with your kids is always worthwhile.
Do as you please. Ultimately, you know what can make you happy. That’s the most important thing.
Who says romance is dead? Believe it: Love is in the air! Choose what you like，trust your family and friends.
【中文译文】：
光棍节即将来临。在中国，情人节已经被炒的过热了，并有专属于情侣的美誉。但单身男女们又该怎么办呢？在情人节他们往往会感到特别的孤单和无助。他们也应该有独自过节的好点子。光棍节就因此应运而生。我们可以在光棍节给自己些许放纵的理由。
我想出了几个单身男女拥有“孤身不孤心”的情人节好主意。不再仅仅把这一天当作日历中无关紧要的一页，不妨从中挑出一两条适合你的。
对于刚刚分手的单身，首要一点就是：感到孤单也一定不要给你的前男友、前女友打电话。过去的就过去了，要向前看。
的确，你肯定仍然觉得很受伤并处于恢复期。但记住这句著名的歌词：“噢，孩子，一切都会好起来的。”过段时间你一定会好的，不要生闷气。光棍节也可以和家里人一起过。
你也可以更有创意地让大家每个人制作一道菜，然后一起玩棋牌游戏或者K歌。在这个过程中，家人可以给你最有力的支持，一定要好好享用。
对于长期单身的男男女女，由于长年找到不到伴侣，其中一些人已经开始感到焦虑了。放轻松，为什么不招呼其他的单身伙伴晚上一起去玩呢？吃一顿大餐随后去单身酒吧转转。天知道你会遇到谁呢。很可能你会遇到一位有感觉的单身人士。光棍节同样是正在寻找爱情的人的节日。
另外，对于即将结婚的人，你可以举办一个单身派对。你可以设计派对的方方面面，包括创意、游戏、赞助者、水酒食物等等。由于设计过程中需要考虑特别多的内容，因此这将是机智有趣并且富于挑战性的。塑造一个令人难忘的派对，何乐而不为呢？
你可以给自己买最喜欢的鲜花。谁说你一定要等到白雪公主或者白马王子出现才能为自己的住所增加一点生机和香气呢？无论男女都可以享受偶尔这样的满布天堂鸟或者幸运竹的盛宴，至少可以改善风水。
单身妈妈/爸爸们（无论是否结过婚），带上你的孩子出去玩。为什么不呢？你甚至可以计划一整天的活动。逛逛商场，带他去他最喜欢的披萨店，看场电影，带他去嘉年华玩游戏（当然要预算合理）。什么都好，与孩子在一起的时间花的总是很值得。
高兴最重要，毕竟鞋子是否和脚只有自己知道，这才是最重要的。
谁说浪漫已经消失？请记住：爱意弥漫天空。选择你喜欢的方式吧，一定要相信家人和朋友哦！
【备注】：
1. around the corner：即将来临的
2. overrate：估计过高
3. gal：女孩子
4. come up with：提出，提供
5. first and foremost 首先且最重要的
6. ex：前夫，前妻，前任的
7. healing：恢复中的，改善中的
8. sulk：生闷气
9. potluck：聚餐，每个客人都自带食物然后大家分而食之的一顿饭
10. board game 棋牌游戏，跳棋或飞行棋那样的游戏
11. videoke：卡拉OK
12. pal 伙伴，朋友
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